Does it take one lesbian to spot another?

Not necessarily.

Once, I turned up for a lesbian party at a local club that claimed to have a waiver of cover charge for lesbians. Unfortunately, the door butch couldn't scan the lesbian in me and I had to pay my way in. What made it more unfortunate was that 3 other girl friends whom I'd asked along with me had to pay their way in as well. Needless to say, we never went back to the party again.

Another time, I went to a lesbian forum alone and a girl asked me this, "What's a straight girl like you doing at a lesbian event?"

Even under such obvious and blatant circumstances, a lesbian can actually be mistaken or suspected to be straight.

Such encounters are not uncommon (and not exclusive) to lipstick lesbians.

Lipstick lesbians

To grab a definition from the Urban Dictionary, lipstick lesbians refer to feminine lesbians who are attracted to other feminine women.

From the same dictionary there is another definition, which I really like, that says:

lipstick lesbian = "The sexiest type of woman alive. A feminine lesbian."

The Lesbian Look?

Contrary to popular belief, there really isn't a standard lesbian look.

Lesbians come in all shapes and sizes, wearing all kinds of bracelets, shoes, and hair.

Some of the stereotype associations with lesbians include short hair, spiky gelled hair, mullet, purple wristbands, tattoos, rainbow tees... and the list goes on.

If one's lesbian spotting skill is only based on judging another's appearance, it is time to throw away that gaydar and acquire a new one. With a gaydar like that, you can score a lot of hits and also a lot of misses.

A straight woman can walk around with short spiky hair, dressed in a punky style and wear a purple wristband.

Likewise, a lesbian can also sashay around looking like a straight Barbie.

Nobody needs to compromise on how they want to look just to suit other people's expectations.

Lesbian Spotting

Lesbian spotting is an important survival skill to acquire because it helps us to suss out who our potential partners are.

After all, to be able to date a girl you must be able to spot the girl who will likely go on a date with you in the first place.

Lipstick lesbians need to develop keen lesbian spotting skills that are at least a notch above the basic level of gaydar because of their unobvious appearance and their search of lesbians with unobvious lesbian appearances.

Of course, there are always mass lesbian parties where lipstick lesbians can get to meet other lipstick lesbians through trial and error. However, this can be a case of finding Wally in a busy picture full of people.

Bottom line is:

Develop a keen set of lesbian spotting skills.

It will empower you and make it inconsequential where you are: lesbian setting or non-lesbian setting.

You can literally go anywhere to get your lipstick lesbian other half.

The world is your (lesbian) oyster!

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